We all like to feel we are honest in our dealings with others and are often outraged when others behave in anything less than worthy manner.  But I wonder how honest we actually are?

I sat and watched Cat on a hot tin roof with my daughter the other day, if you are unfamiliar with the film it revolves around a day in the life of one family and what they refer to as mendacity.  The film was made in the fifties so this is rather an old fashioned term but basically translated into modern language as dishonesty or lies. read more…

Change seems all around us.  Obvious of course but sometimes the speed is alarming.  You can swing from just going along in your routine and then be into an almost recognisable life.

When the changes are unwelcome how can we manage them?  Look to a higher meaning and wonder what life is trying to teach us and look for the benefits of the situation?  Easier to do in hindsight I think.  read more…

Odd isn’t it that once you start to think about something it seems to pop up everywhere?  You know the sort of thing, you decide to buy a particular car and then see them everywhere.  Well, my latest one is everybody seems to be talking about being authentic.

Here at The Way Towers we have been banging on for quite a while about it.  We work hard to get our clients to embrace authenticity and back that up with some support when needed.

Why would you need support to be authentic?  read more…

No, not the boundary that limits your success, but the boundaries that hold you and build resilience and enhance success.  They are the ones that help you to be more authentic and ultimately happier.

As children we are held by boundaries, the healthiest and happiest children are those who know where they stand with people.  That there are lines that, if crossed, bring a negative result.  This leaves them free to concentrate on being children and the all the learning that brings.  Children raised in too loose an environment with no experience of being held back from their own free will, rarely hearing no, can live a life of frustration and anger always pushing against the next boundary.  read more…