For our generation this is our most painful experience of needing to find and exercise real meaningful resilience in our working lives.

The threat of job loss perhaps or restriction on promotions or pay increments; finding new engaging employment; redefining the product or services we supply.  The list of things can feel fairly endless.

Additionally many of us have been touched by the need to reach beyond the ordinary and become resilient as we face just the normal trials of life.
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No, not the boundary that limits your success, but the boundaries that hold you and build resilience and enhance success.  They are the ones that help you to be more authentic and ultimately happier.

As children we are held by boundaries, the healthiest and happiest children are those who know where they stand with people.  That there are lines that, if crossed, bring a negative result.  This leaves them free to concentrate on being children and the all the learning that brings.  Children raised in too loose an environment with no experience of being held back from their own free will, rarely hearing no, can live a life of frustration and anger always pushing against the next boundary.  read more…